Life Is A Battlefield

It started with a surprise kidney infection in December that just held on. Three hospital stays, a bout with sepsis, a prolonged pneumonia scare and three months later, the kidney infection was still holding on. And during the battle to defeat this intruder, my body was getting attacked on all different fronts. A surprise infection here, a cough there, skin rashes and antibiotic side effects. I was getting weighed down.

While new infections were parading through, my parvo virus number was again on the rise...it grew exponentially to a simple >100,000,000. That's a really big army for my suppressed immune system to put down on its own. I felt like a target for infection and there are no Allied Forces to call on to back up my troops.

Dr Wali tried to make light of the situation, calling me "the most unique patient I've had in 5 years." I smiled, trying to take pride in this...I always wanted to be special...He explained that the multiple rejections I had early post-transplant(more specifically the treatment of them) were showing long term effects on my body. My immune system has been seriously disabled.

Ugh. Not the kind of special I had in mind.

I try to explain the situation metaphorically to myself like it's a war, a battlefield, but each time it requires that David defeat multiple Goliaths to make it through each battle and then do it all again the next day. Like "Groundhog Day," only with exhaustion and illness. In my head, I got stuck and sad and accepting and defeated.

And quiet. Really quiet. I didn't want to share this, to taint anyone's perspective on whether transplant was a good idea for them or to show my shield of strength was cracking or admit that I was scared.

But I was scared. I was tired. I stopped exercising. I slept more but didn't feel rested. I juggled hospital visits for treatment and multiple doctor appointments. I tried to research how other people dealt with this, but I couldn't find anyone in a similar-enough situation,

I haven't found any answers and last week it dawned on me...it doesn't matter how other people handle it. The only things that matter are the steps I'm taking right now.

That was a rude awakening, because I was only taking steps in the wrong direction.

A transplanted kidney lasts an average of 10-15 years.
A transplanted pancreas lasts an average of 10 years.
Time is ticking and I can't let any more of it go to waste with sadness and fear.

I started with an excruciating mile and a half run/walk.
The next day I moved back into my strength routine.
I changed my perspective. Period.

At the end of each day, I want to be proud of myself.
At the start, I will focus on what I've got and not what I'm not.

It's very simple.
Inspiring.
And that's who I'm choosing to be.