Catching Up

The past month has been a struggle. 

My post-transplant immune system has led me to the ER three times, gotten me admitted twice and pushed me to spend a total of 13 days in the hospital.

It all started with fever, chills and migraines that wouldn't quit. First trip to the ER determined a surprise UTI as the cause. Then followed antibiotics and brief improvement.

Fast forward two weeks and exact same symptoms returned, only worse. I was admitted and treated for the now stronger UTI, sepsis(which had come from UTI) and the flu. Five days in the hospital and a week of IV delivered antibiotics at home brought relief.

Round 3 came a week after antibiotic treatment ended, and it was the worst yet. All the same symptoms, except even worse and additional complication of intense pain in my transplanted kidney and severe dehydration. My blood pressure was dropping to dangerous levels because of the sepsis and dehydration. 

I realized I was too sick to drive. 
My head was killing me.
I was dizzy and off balance. 

I got a ride to my doctor's appointment. When I arrived, I was worsening. According to the lab tech, when I tried to stand up, I was doing "the dance." I heard her yell for help and felt her supporting all my weight. I couldn't keep myself up anymore.

They took my blood pressure: 59/43. My nurse told me I was going to be admitted. I responded with something I've never said before: ”I want to be admitted." I knew I was sick.

The next few days were whirlwind-y. I felt badly, but no one knew what was wrong exactly. i was quarantined for the first 6 days and only saw 3 people each day: 2 nurses and the doctor, all masked and gowned for everyone's safety.

Tests revealed I had the flu and a UTI and sepsis and a kidney infection and pneumonia. My transplant team concluded that the original UTI I got a month ago was never fully eradicated, got stronger and had brought on the kidney infection and sepsis. The kidney infection had spread past my transplanted kidney and into my native kidney. They were running cultures and trying to treat all this, but my headaches weren't improving and my fevers didn't stop. I was receiving a wide array of narcotics, antibiotics and rest-inducing medicine...my head was muddled.

The transplant team acknowledged they were concerned and didn't have the answers or a treatment plan. Hearing this while at such a low point physically was the most disturbing message I've received from a doctor yet. 

Infectious Disease was called in to help. Their team tried multiple different antibiotics to see which one my body responded to positively. After some painstaking trials, they found one that was effective at fighting the unique type of pneumonia I had. A CT scan revealed that the previously unknown cause of my headaches was a very aggressive sinus infection. No one ever determined the cause of the fevers that remained long after they should have disappeared, but ultimately they also stopped. My body, after having been through so much physical trauma and medication, was so eager to simply rest.

Eight days in the hospital and I was cleared. Pneumonia was the toughest and scariest one. It took a while for them to find the right weapon(antibiotic) to use in battle. On the morning of my release, Dr Piper pointed at the monitor and told me how beautiful my lungs were. I laughed, grateful to be able to after the preceding week.

I am home now, and again on home-based IV antibiotics. I don't mind as much this time around; I really just want to be sure every possible bug/bacteria/threat is gone. I have been cleared of pneumonia and sepsis. The antibiotics are still chipping away at the kidney infection and sinus infection. I am still recovering from the illnesses and the treatment.

My head spins thinking about it all. I'm trying to be safe and rest, take care of myself. The hectic and stressful past and the unpredictable future haunts me when I lay down to rest, trying to take care of myself, trying to recover physically and mentally.

I'm tired and scared and alive and grateful.

 

And envious.

Envious of my body, my flawed and burdened body, 

resilient in the face of every challenge.

My exhausted and tattered body, 

with its telltale scars, battle wounds, wrinkles and stretch marks. 

My perfectly imperfect body, 

and its miraculous, against-all-odds, what-doesn't-kill-me-makes-me-stronger, never-say-die indomitable spirit. 

I can't wait for my mind to catch up.

And The War Rages On...

I am confident and nervous. I am grateful and skeptical. I am eager and scared.
The back and forth makes my head spin and my stomach queasy.

My parvo titer has been rising. For those of you who are not transplant-recipients-with-a-very-rare-immune-system-response-to-a-very-common-typically-asympotatic-virus, this means the level of the parvo virus in my system is increasing. A lot. And the loss of oxygen carrying red blood cells is coming.

"Healthy" is 0. I have never, since diagnosis, reached 0. My initial number, at diagnosis, was 1,030,000 and I felt especially sick. Like admitted-to-the-hospital-and-given-multiple-blood-transfusions sick. Like the-doctors-treating-me-had-never-seen-a-number-that-high sick. The lowest I have reached, in June, was 26,857. My last result is so high, the lab can't even quantify it, it simply reads a vague  >10,000,000.

Yes...greater than 10 million.  I refresh the lab results web page twice in disbelief. I count the zeroes a few times to be sure. It all feels simultaneously ridiculous and teetering-on-the-edge-of-hospital-admission serious.

In September, I was fighting a cough and cold and congestion, for weeks. This led to a sinus infection, pneumonia, and multiple rounds of steroids and antibiotics. Ultimately the right combination of meds and my less-than-efficient immune system won the battle.

As my doctor made clear to me at my last appointment, the war continues.

The next battle is upon me. Congestion, cough, sinus pain. Trying to nip this one in the bud, I head to urgent care, get diagnosed with a sinus infection and bronchitis. Ironically, I feel an eerie victory in this:
a) I don't have pneumonia. 
b) Those two things are completely treatable. 
I am physically ill, but it's not insurmountable. It's another battle I am set to win. I hope.

Honestly, I am weary of the relentless battles. I am struggling to retain the optimistic perspective I need. Dr Wali, in his "war goes on" speech, reminded me that this war is lifelong, it's a balancing act that I will be responsible for forever. There's no vacations, no time off for good behavior or even days that half-ass-effort will get me by. And the rules will keep changing, tolerances will adjust, resistances will build up, drugs will have side effects, and viruses will return.

Viruses, like parvo, the one that's snowballing in my body now. No one knows how long it will take for the virus' red-blood-cell-destroying power to start affecting my day-to-day life, or even if it already has. Is that why a run-of-the-mill cough turned into pneumonia a month ago? Is that why I'm struggling to fend off the runny nose my son had for two days two weeks ago that, for me, has turned into a sinus infection with bronchitis?

I'm going soon for in-hospital IVIG treatment, a kind of immunoglobulin cocktail that doesn't fight parvo virus directly, but is believed to generally boost your immune system so that it can stand up to the virus. Because this situation is so rare, it's technically not FDA approved, but has a track record(obviously a short one) of improving the patient's ability to fight the virus. None of this translates into that warm, fuzzy feeling that feels so elusive.

And it takes about a month to see the potential effects of IVIG treatment.
Long term strategic planning...a foundation for victory.

I do my best to explain things lightly and in lay terms to my daughter. She laughs at the overwhelmingly present theme of war.

Outwardly, I laugh with her. I hear myself, boasting like Bugs Bunny, assuring her that I am going to win this war.

Inwardly, I am confident AND nervous. I am grateful AND skeptical. I am eager AND scared.