Stubborn Purple Resolve

We are set to leave California to go home from vacation on Thursday. The week has been up and down, spending time with my dad, lots of people to see, fun to be had, and as much rest as possible in between it all. A few days of continued digestive issues and signs of a budding infection haunt me as we enjoy the end of the trip.

I receive an email from my coordinator as we're prepping to head to the airport. Nikki tells me Dr Wali wants me to be admitted the following day to treat the CMV that has been causing the troublesome symptoms. I am unprepared for this, and I need to scramble to get my kids' covered, free my responsibilities for the weekend and get to the hospital within hours of arriving back on the east coast.

It hasn't been easy, I receive help from others, and I'm sure I've let a few people down, but I make it to the hospital by 10:15 as had been agreed upon with my nurse. Unfortunately, I get informed that no beds are available. Frustrated and jet-lagged, I sleep on a hospital couch waiting indefinitely. A call at 1:30 jolts me awake, a woman asking where I am because my bed is ready. I get admitted quickly, but end up waiting until 6pm for doctors orders and medicine to materialize.

The techs and nurses are accommodating and offer me a pitcher of ice water and the standard hospital gown. I gratefully accept the water and politely refuse the gown, stubbornly keeping on the purple polo shirt I arrived in.  I'm determined to not be sick, so I'm not even going to take the risk of appearing sick.

I'm set up on IV Cytovene. I've never used this drug before and I'm too tired to look it up when it starts. I sleep through the night and into the late morning when the doctors are rounding. Dr Wali tells me CMV is "a nasty virus," and that it needs to be contained. My recent CMV titer is 50,000 and needs to be less than 200 to be considered contained.


He has ordered that I stop taking Cellcept, one of the immunosuppressants I've been required to take since transplant(It is supposed to be a lifelong necessary medication). This is alarming to me and I ask about the increased risk of rejection without half my immunosuppressant meds. Dr Wali says that it's an inherent risk we have to take to defeat CMV.

They're also taking some samples and tests that will need to culture to confirm CMV as the cause of my recent digestive issues.  He says we'll have more information in 24-48 hours.

I am appreciative of the proactive response and treatment, but also realize the seriousness that must be implied by acting so quickly and decisively. Discontinuing Cellcept? Definitely a risky, but apparently necessary, step to take.

My purple polo shirt and I refuse to be sick. We'll stop the immunosuppressant and play the precarious guess-and-check game of balancing the risk of rejection against the existence of infection. I know my immune system needs a boost to fight off these opportunistic infections, but I've grown especially attached to my functioning kidney and pancreas, and I don't want to tempt rejection. 

And that's exactly what we're doing. 
And the balancing act is getting tougher. 
And the stakes are getting higher.

After the team leaves, I realize I've forgotten to ask about the CMV medicine, Cytovene, i look it up and find that it is typically given by IV for a couple weeks...Yuck! My nurse Nikki had told me I'd probably be in the hospital for a couple days. I'm hoping that answer will come with my test results, so the question will be only temporary.


I reassure myself that this whole situation is temporary, and this is not MY real life. The particulars of this temporary situation are means to an end:

• I temporarily need infusion treatments to fight off the "nasty" CMV.
• i temporarily need an IV in my arm to keep  hydrated.
• I've temporarily got bandages from blood draws.
• I'm temporarily confined to the hospital bed.
• If Cytovene IV treatment takes a couple weeks, it will also be temporary means to an end.

The tech comes in to see how I'm feeling and to again offer me the hospital gown.

I look in the mirror and acknowledge that I am feeling....ok.
"No, thank you." I smile appreciatively.

My purple polo shirt and I refuse to be sick.